What Young Women Are Telling Me About Dating Right Now There is a song I keep hearing about in my therapy rooms. Not on the speakers. In the stories. Chappell Roan’s Femininomenon  opens with a scenario most of the young women I work with could have written themselves: the promising online connection, the exchanged playlists and late-night messages, the whole thing evaporating the moment somebody suggests meeting for an actual coffee. Roan has said the song is about the confu